WHY YOU CAN’T SLEEP

April 30, 2025

If you’ve been tossing and turning at night, you might be doing a few things during the day that wreck your sleep without even realizing it. Let’s talk about some of the biggest sleep mistakes people make, so you can fix them and get the rest you deserve.

First off, coffee after dinner might seem like a cozy idea, especially with a slice of pie, but it’s a trap. That caffeine sticks around for hours, keeping your brain buzzing long after you’re ready for bed. It’s not just coffee either. Caffeine hides in tea, chocolate, sodas, and those energy drinks. If you want to sleep like a baby, save the caffeine for earlier in the day.

Then there’s alcohol. It’s called a nightcap for a reason, right? Wrong. Alcohol might make you feel sleepy at first, but it actually messes up your deep sleep later on. You’ll be waking up in the middle of the night, feeling anything but rested. So, maybe swap that nightcap for a nice cup of herbal tea instead.

Now, let’s talk about our favorite pastime — surfing the web. Those bright screens, especially the blue light from phones, tablets, and TVs, tell your brain to stay awake. If you’re scrolling through social media right before bed, it’s no wonder you’re wide awake at midnight. Try shutting down your screens a couple of hours before bedtime. Your brain will thank you.

If you’re sneaking in a nap, be careful about when you do it. A short nap can be refreshing, but if you’re napping late in the afternoon, it can backfire big time and make it harder to fall asleep later. If you’re feeling sluggish, a splash of cold water on your face or a brisk walk outside might be a better pick-me-up.

Keeping your bedroom cool makes a big difference too. It’s tough to fall asleep when you’re too hot and sweaty. High heat and humidity make your body restless. Try setting your thermostat lower at night or using a fan to keep the air moving.

Eating a huge meal right before bed is another common mistake. A heavy dinner can rev up your body’s engine and even cause weird dreams. Everyone’s a little different, though. If you’re a late-night snacker, try keeping a diary to see if late eating messes with your sleep.

Medications can also sneak in and mess with your shut-eye. Some prescription and over-the-counter meds have hidden stimulants. Never stop your meds without talking to your doctor first, but it’s worth asking them if what you’re taking could be messing with your sleep.

Skipping exercise is another big no-no. Exercise boosts your mood, reduces anxiety, and helps your body keep a regular sleep-wake schedule. But here’s the trick — don’t work out right before bed. Exercising too late can leave you feeling wired instead of relaxed. Try to finish your workouts at least three hours before you hit the pillow.

Mental health is tightly tied to good sleep, too. If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, or even just going through a tough time, it can wreck your sleep. Don’t suffer in silence. Talk to your doctor. Sometimes therapy, medication, or just having someone to listen can make a world of difference.

Worry is another huge sleep stealer. If your mind is racing with everything you forgot to do today — or need to do tomorrow — try writing it all down before bed. A simple to-do list can free your mind from carrying those worries all night long.

Late-night arguments are another sleep killer. Having a big blow-up after dinner cranks up your stress hormones and leaves you tossing and turning. Try to save serious discussions for daytime and keep evenings peaceful. Maybe swap a heated debate for a good book, soft music, or even a warm bath.

Drinking too much water right before bed is something a lot of people don’t think about. Sure, you need to stay hydrated, but slamming a bunch of water before bed will have you running to the bathroom all night. Spread your water intake throughout the day to avoid late-night interruptions.

And finally, sleeping in seems like a treat, but it can actually mess up your whole sleep rhythm. Sleeping late throws off your internal clock and makes it harder to fall asleep the next night. Keeping a regular sleep schedule — even on weekends — will help you get better quality sleep over time.

Getting good sleep is like building a house. Every little thing you do during the day either lays a strong brick or knocks one down. Pay attention to your habits, and you’ll build a strong foundation for great sleep. Your body, your mind, and your mood will all be better for it.

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